Be Whole. Then Plus One. (A Pretty Girl’s Blog)

Another one from my girl! Reminds me of something I used to hear alot on Oprah (yes Oprah!) “A man should not complete you, rather compliment you” 🙂

After the butterflies and rainbows disappear. You have the person. The Human. And you still have your bullshit. Except now there are two of you. Two Great People, with their bullshit to go with it.

I see this. I realize this. In a wild attempt to duck the bombs, I’ve come to the following conclusion:

Make sure that you have everything you need to be happy before getting in a relationship. Make sure that you have ALL corners covered. Money is right. Spirituality is right. Health is right. Relationships are right. So that the ONLY reason you want a partner is for Play … and because you take such good care of yourself, you will see who brings what to the table with clear vision. You can see people CLEARLY when you take good care of yourself. You can’t use anyone for anything when you supply everything for yourself. Relationships then become what they were always supposed to be – FUN. FUN FUN FUN FUN FUN FUN.

And if you fall in love, well – what’s FUNNER than that?

Read the rest here!

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